Helter Celtic
![]() | I was teaching at YWAM Vancouver a couple of weeks ago, and ran into several of their staff who proudly wear kilts as part of their daily attire, despite have pretty much ZERO Celtic roots – "It's like being naked, but with pockets", said one with great dignity and an obvious sense of enlightenment. |
But far more important, it was such an honour to speak to the DTS students in Vancouver, and to be trusted with the hearing of some of their painful stories of abuse and alienation, and walk with them into a new season of forgiveness and freedom.
And to have gotten to know some cultures far outside my norm – particularly the Koreans at our base in Kelowna – became an unexpected source of healing for some Vancouver students. If I hadn't gotten more familiar with Korean culture through my own base (almost half of the staff & student mix is from South Korea, as is a fair amount of our daily cuisine), I would have missed some very important clues for ministry in Vancouver. It's one of those things that make you feel full of gratitude and simultaneously very small and humbled at the same time.
It's almost numbing sometimes, hearing the levels of devastation and betrayal in some of these precious saints, but to be one of many instruments of healing in their lives… well, it just doesn’t get any better than that.
So, my apologies for the paucity of regular blogging here this past month, but the Kingdom was advancing, and that seemed a more pressing priority.
But it's also good to be back!





4 Comments:
Scott
What clues did you find useful in entering into the healing of the Vancouver group?
Was the Korean experience somehow different than other cultural groups in allowing the healing?
Thanks,
Derek
Whoops, ROB.
ouch
Lukas,
I mean DEREK (dang...)
Without giving personal details, which would be inappropriate, suffice it to say that I learned, from being around Korean believers a great deal these past two years, that Koreans process "sharing" very differently than Westerners.
If you were opening up with me, sharing some deep wounds from your past, everything in our Canadian culture (and American, too, if I'm not mistaken) would say to me (loudly), "It's about the person sharing; don't talk about yourself or compare your own experiences. Focus on the person sharing."
In South Korean culture, such a move would communicate disrespect and bring shame on the person sharing. In Korean culture, if someone opens up, you are EXPECTED to then share equally your own "painful story". If you don't, you're communicating a basic callousness towards their story and heaping shame & condemnation on them.
So, in Vancouver, when a Korean student asked me, at a sidewalk table outside a coffeeshop on Commercial Drive, "may I tell you my painful story" (the phrase "painful story" is also distinctly Korean and was in itself a clue), I realized two things immediately:
1) I was being shown a great deal of trust by the Korean student, in them wanting to share some deep pain from their past, and
2) That I would, of course, (briefly) reciprocate with some of my story, to show honour and respect.
It opened up a great time of sharing and listening, and ended with a very healing prayer time, right there on Commercial Drive in Vancouver's crusty East Side, while pedestrians strolled by -- probably wondering what was going on.
And before we left the cafe, I was taught a new Korean word, which I can't spell but is pronounced "cheen-goo", and it means "friend".
I would have probably missed the prayer time, the sharing time, and even learning a new Korean word, if I hadn't learned a bit more about South Korean culture from my co-workers and students at my own YWAM base.
Hahaaaa! Great quote.
- Pat, a Utilikilitarian, wearing his black Original right now
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